Whoah! Calm down, seriously! If you didn't know the rules, just say so. No one is trying to harm you or offend you, I think Butterhead was just being a bit too harsh in his wording. I was joking as well (just in case you couldn't tell), but annoying people is what we who utilize the Forums are best at. It is quite alright that you have done this, so long as you remember not to do it again.
I, personally, do not care for the Anonymity of any game. I believe that people (although not smart enough), are rational enough not to hold anything against you in future games because of one made previously. I do not mind stating who I am in an anonymous game, even if I am breaking the rules.
But I do not, quite often, because I would rather preserve and honor the sanctity of the etiquette that Oli has provided us. He does a lot of work for us, and I would rather not piss him off just because someone is doing something stupid that they know they shouldn't be doing.
Anyways...I lost track of what I was saying.